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100 Dates After My Wife Died

Posted on March 19, 2022June 26, 2022 by Steve Ainslie

My friend, who used to be a writing professor and has published one book has ben harping on me for years to write a book.

First, he encouraged me to write a book about sales, since I had published 100 posts for Inside Sales Dude. I had no interest in writing a book. After all, I already wrote the posts.

Yesterday, I was telling him stories about the 10 women I dated and the lessons I learned froths experience. He said, “You should write a book and call it 100 Dates After My Wife Died. It would be a best seller.”

I laughed.

Then I went home a read about what it takes to get a book published and marketed.

No thanks.


I will undoubtedly continue to write about my dating life and the women I meet. It helps me process my thoughts and also document my mindset at a particular time.

It’s quite revealing to review posts I wrote as recently as 3 months ago and realize how emotionally distracted (or crazy) I was.

But as for writing a book, I have no interest in going down the rathole of self promotion, agent submissions, and publishing solicitations. I don’t want learn that business.

I can write whatever I want to and publish it right here. Right now. For me and for you.

And that, my friends, is freedom.

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