Author: Steve Ainslie

Talking to a couple of friends recently has me thinking about life and happiness. When my friends ask me how I am, my answer 95% of the time is, “I’m fantastic.” And the thing is, it’s true. Unfortunately for my friends, when I ask how they are doing, 95% of the time, their answer is…

When I was a younger man, a sizable portion of my time was spent doing things I did not want to do. Sometimes these were obligations that I could not get out of – like sitting in class day after day and hour after hour waiting for the rest of my classmates to catch up…

A friend I haven’t spoken to in a while called to talk to me about getting a divorce. I didn’t have much advice for him. I don’t have any experience with getting divorced. My experiences with divorce are from the perspective of a child and later, as a step-parent. So instead of offering any advice,…

Mitch McConnell has some kind of health problem on camera this week. In the middle of a press conference, he suddenly stopped speaking and froze in place. After a few minutes, he was walked off camera. He returned some time later and only addressed reporters equations with “I’m fine.” Clearly, he was not fine. Something…

While I don’t enjoy being rejected, I have had enough of it throughout my life that I’ve learned how to handle it without getting bent out of shape. A few big ones hit me quite hard and changed the trajectory of my life – my father disappearing from my life when I was 5, my…

I knew that the Obama’s became wealthy after he was president. This came as no surprise. Both Barack and Michelle landed lucrative book deals during the presidency and afterward (reportedly $60M +). They also signed a huge deal with Netflix (reportedly $80M?). I’ imagine’m sure they made a bunch of money being paid for speaking…

The pandemic is clearly over in my neighborhood. Houses are selling – but not at the same pace or above list prices they were during the pandemic induced buying frenzy. Judging from the traffic, people have returned to working from the office. I see dozens of new cars with temporary license plates in driveways that…

I enjoy being a decent neighbor, a good friend and a helpful stranger. When I see someone struggling to move a piece of furniture from their car to their house, I’ll offer to help. If some @sshole leaves their dog poop in a neighbor’s yard, I’ll bag it up. When my neighbor asks if I…

During brain numbing dives of browsing YouTube & Reddit Idiocracy, I am often fed video shorts of people filming themselves at the gym, on the beach, in dance clubs, doing stunts, or dancing in public spaces when someone walks past their camera disrupting the video. The person creating the video of himself or herself, gets…

I listened to a “Hot Ones interview” with Henry Rollins yesterday while I mowed the lawn. I really like Henry Rollins. The first time I ever heard Rollins speak was in the early 90s. He had been hired by MTV to report on Bill Clinton’s presidential campaign. I vaguely knew of him as the lead…