Looking through selfies taken on my cell phone over the past two and half years since my wife died, I noticed a change over time.
In the beginning I was so sad. You can see it in my face. Over time, peace came to me. Then color. Then satisfaction, happiness and even joy.
Below are the images in rough chronological order from soon after she died until today. I’ll let the pictures tell their own story.
Prepping for road trip March 2019
Camping in Homochitto National Forest in Mississippi – April 2019Camping in Mississippi – April 2019March 2019 Before the road tripMarch 2019 before road tripFirst Winter back in Raleigh 2019Modeling the vest my friend Craig gifted to me. 2020
New Mexico – May 2019Flagstaff May 2019Arizona desert April or May 2019Flagstaff AZ, May 2019Silver City NM, May 2019Flagstaff AZ June 2019Albuquerque NM May 2019Flagstaff May 2019Enroute from CA to NC to settle in Raleigh June 2019
Road trip over – Back in Raleigh to find a home June 2019
First housewarming gift from my nephew – June 2019
Fall 2019Wiggles had no problem immediately making herself at home Winter 2020Reminds Me of Bruce Willis in Shattered – Winter 2021Early Winter 2019Early Winter 2019Winter 2020Winter 2020Fall 2020Fall 2020Winter/Spring 2021Winter/Spring 2021Winter/Spring 2021
Finally after 53 years of trying, I got ripped.
Winter/Spring 2021Ready for a cold wet dog walk – Winter 2021