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When Is Enough Enough?

Posted on May 23, 2020November 8, 2025 by Steve Ainslie

I have had it with the clusterfuck of the US healthcare system, the lack of effective social support structures, our profit driven corporation-controlled government and our consumer driven economic system.  For the most part, I don’t even have to deal with most of this. (Except for healthcare since I am an uninsured and live in…

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Why Aren’t We Talking About Euthanasia?

Posted on May 23, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

When I read the stories about overwhelmed hospitals, people gasping for air,  massive numbers of deaths and bodies piling up in Italy from the Covid-19 pandemic, I expected we’d soon be talking about euthanasia (aka assisted suicide) in the US. At the very least, I expected we’d be discussing giving medications to accelerate dying to…

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You Can’t Run Away

Posted on May 22, 2020October 16, 2025 by Steve Ainslie

A longtime fantasy of mine is to run away.  Disappear. Go. Vanish. Witness protection seemed like a dream come true. Get a fresh start with a home and a job in a new place where nobody knew me.  I’d be unencumbered by the past and have limitless options for the future. After every vacation we…

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The Problems Of Scale

Posted on May 22, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

The last 10 years of my sales management career were focused on transforming sales team to operate “like a machine”.  We did this by standardizing processes for recruiting, hiring, training, selling, managing and disciplining sales reps and managers. We calculated how many leads we needed to produce how much revenue. We measured phone calls, customer…

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Inguinal Hernia Repair Surgery & Recovery

Posted on May 21, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

Note: This post is going to detail my inguinal hernia repair surgery and my post-op experience. It is going to be specific, clinical and likely to be of interest only to other athletic men who are considering the surgery. For everyone else, I recommend skipping it.

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I Just Had Inguinal Hernia Surgery And I Am Not A Happy Camper

Posted on May 21, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

Due to a cancellation, I had my inguinal hernia repair surgery three days ago. I’ll write a separate post detailing the surgical procedure in case other men who have this condition are looking for details. I’ll spare everyone else the details. Suffice it to say, I am on the other side of the surgery. There…

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Get Ready For A Pandemic of Excuses

Posted on May 20, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

Sometime in the late 1990’s, as call centers were outsourced, monopolies grew and customer service became equated with “spend as little as possible”, I began hearing this whenever I called a company for support: “Due to increased call volumes, hold times may be longer…” For 30 years, it’s been the standard greeting for every business,…

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American Reject

Posted on May 20, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

I wish I had questioned my beliefs and rejected more of what I’d been told earlier in my life. I would have saved decades of wasted time and effort.

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Jar Of Olives – A Love Story

Posted on May 20, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

She was on food stamps. I was unemployed. We were in love. When I was helping unload the groceries, she said “I have a surprise for you.” She handed me a jar of green olives. Because on one of our early dates, I told her I loved green olives. It was one of the sweetest…

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Patience Is Not My Middle Name

Posted on May 19, 2020September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

I hate waiting for anything.  So you can imagine how much I like hospitals. I spent the past thirty years in waiting rooms as my poor wife had appointments, treatments, surgeries and tests. And finally those agonizing last days and weeks waiting for her to die.  At first, I sat in waiting rooms and worried…

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