Skip to content

ainslies.org

a small, quiet life

Menu
  • Home
  • About
  • Archives
Menu

The Ebbs and Flows of Friendship

Posted on July 2, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie
Read more

A Little Bit Inconvenient

Posted on July 1, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

On the road, very little went the way I planned. After driving hundreds of miles to a campsite, I’d find it closed. Despite having a 4WD truck and an off-road camper, I still got stuck in the mud. After just a few days of nature and solitude, I missed human companionship A bigger realization was that…

Read more

The Next Chapter

Posted on June 23, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

Big changes are coming. As I settle back into civilization in Raleigh, I realize that it is time for me to start rebuilding my life -without Ellen, without Zack, without my cats and without many of the wonderful (and some not so wonderful) parts of my life before my wife died. I learned a lot…

Read more

Savoring The Moments

Posted on June 19, 2019June 26, 2022 by Steve Ainslie

Fifteen years ago, my wife was undergoing a year long treatment for an advanced infection. Every Friday night she’d inject herself with medicine and take a handful of pills. Saturdays and Sundays she’d be nauseous, feverish, and in pain with flu-like symptoms.   She’d start to feel better by midweek and then we’d start the…

Read more

It’s Over

Posted on June 10, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

After two months of full time travel, my life on the road has ended. I drove 8000 miles from coast to coast, visited 10 states and camped out for 54 straight days. I slept in truck stops, deserts, mountains and forests. I learned how to use GPS coordinates, to read topography maps and how to find…

Read more

Is This Real Life?

Posted on May 18, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

One of my favorite videos is of the kid in the back seat whose dad filmed him while he was still loopy from dental anesthesia. If you’ve never seen it, I highly recommend watching it now.  You’ll thank me later. 

Read more

The Dollar Store

Posted on May 17, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

When I lived in the city, I only went to the Dollar Store to buy 2 things – party decorations and holiday cards.  Otherwise, I avoided this place like the plague.  They were disorganized, disheveled, and full of cheap crap the wasn’t worth a dollar. They smelled bad, sold low quality merchandise and in general…

Read more

Eating Alone

Posted on May 17, 2019September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

Since I’ve been on the road, I’ve been craving good Mexican food. I’ve identified highly rated restaurants and local joints in several places I’ve camped near.  But circumstances, timing and laziness prevented me from eating at any of these places.   Instead I’ve eaten at Dos Tacos (fast food), Chipotle (I didn’t get e-coli) and…

Read more

Surprise…surprise!

Posted on May 15, 2019August 1, 2023 by Steve Ainslie

Back in the dark ages when I was a kid, we had a black and white TV that got 3 channels. Sometimes. Other times the signal could drop down to 2. And after theJohnny Carson show or the news, the stations went off air until the next morning.  So although I didn’t really like the…

Read more

Small Town America

Posted on May 15, 2019October 19, 2022 by Steve Ainslie

I thought I would love small town America.   After all, I have only fond memories of the first seven years of my life that I spent in Tamaqua, PA (pop. 7000).  I remember walking down the street and talking to every person I saw. They knew me, my parents, my grandparents, my aunts, my…

Read more

Posts pagination

  • Previous
  • 1
  • …
  • 157
  • 158
  • 159
  • 160
  • 161
  • 162
  • 163
  • …
  • 186
  • Next

Recent Posts

  • Calories In/Calories Out.
  • What Now?
  • February Fake Out
  • Making History
  • Sycophants, Suck Ups & The Epstein Files
  • I Won’t Become a Developer
  • We Can Figure This Stuff Out
  • Education Musings
  • Sunk Cost Truth
  • Don’t Turn Your Rocks Into Trophies
© 2026 ainslies.org | Powered by Superbs Personal Blog theme