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Posted on June 12, 2018September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

My wife says I dress like nobody loves me. But her attempts to shame me into dressing better will never work. I already know she loves me. I’ve never had much of a sense of style. As a child, I couldn’t figure what colors matched. I hated having to wear uncomfortable “school clothes” and couldn’t wait…

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Crunch Time

Posted on June 9, 2018September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

My dog Snickers is spoiled. I’m up first, so every morning, I feed and walk her long before my wife Ellen wakes up. Then I head into the garage to work out. A few hours later, when Ellen wakes up, she feeds Snickers “dog cookies” (dehydrated chicken jerky that costs as much as filet mignon)….

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Stop Being A Whiny Crybaby

Posted on June 9, 2018September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

When did it become a badge of honor to act like a whiny crybaby? Although I avoided it as much as possible, I was occasionally bullied as a kid – by my sister, by classmates, and even by some of my friends. Sometimes I was teased. Other times I was “tortured” (pinched, scratched, punched etc)….

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There Are No Victims In Sales

Posted on June 6, 2018December 31, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

When I was a little kid, my sister and I would often share the last piece of cake or candy. My sister was older and bigger than me, so she’d split the treat and give me the smaller piece.  It was never fair. One day, when I was about 8, I read an article that…

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How To Target Decision Makers At The Right Accounts To Sell The Largest Deals

Posted on June 2, 2018December 31, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

This week I received this question from Allison who sells a website security solution. How can I make sure I am targeting the right Decision Makers at the right accounts to sell the largest possible deals?

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Helping A Sales Rep Quit

Posted on May 31, 2018December 31, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

The other day when I was out walking,  I saw the scrap man struggling to lift an old washer into his pickup truck.  Since I am not a complete a**hole, I ran across the street, grabbed a side and helped him put it on top of the pile of other recyclables he’d collected. He was…

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My Consulting Business Is Down This Year

Posted on May 31, 2018December 31, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

I have to do something to drive more consulting business. I started my business in 2017 after losing my VP of Sales job. My original purpose was to write the Inside Sales Dude blog to use as a resume enhancer that would help me land my next job. To my surprise after just a few months,…

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My Life As An Introvert

Posted on May 29, 2018December 14, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

Ever since I was a little kid, I have enjoyed spending time alone. Like most kids, I liked to play with other kids. I always had at least one best friend plus plenty of other good friends. I didn’t have difficulty meeting people or making friends. But I loved solitude too. I could curl up…

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Most Sales Training Is Garbage

Posted on May 29, 2018December 31, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

When I first starting selling, I read sales training books from the “masters” Zig Ziglar,  Dale Carnegie and Napoleon Hill.  From there, I went on to read books on Strategic Selling, Consultative Sales, Selling to the C-Level, etc. I had formal sales training delivered by three different vendors when working for a large corporation. More…

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My Experience With Obamacare aka the ACA

Posted on May 28, 2018September 4, 2021 by Steve Ainslie

My first day back to work after Hurricane Michael knocked out power to my home in Florida, I received a call that my job was eliminated. I was officially unemployed and uninsured for the first time in a decade. ACA Coverage for 2017 My options for health insurance were COBRA for $600/month or an ACA…

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