This month, I was invited to be a guest on the Solo podcast! The host said that I had an “interesting story tell and have a thoughtful approach to life”. The more I think about my story and answers to some of the questions I anticipate, the more I think, “Yeah. Maybe.” I’m not ambivalent…
Author: Steve Ainslie
Uncle Russ
My Uncle Russ lived in the apartment above Aunt Es. Russ lived alone. His wife died from a heart attack before I was born. He worked for the railroad until he retired. Every night, when dinner was ready, I’d run down Essie’s hallway and bang on the radiator pipe with a spoon to let him…
Empty Tank
Today is exactly four years since my wife died. This year feels different than previous years. I’m not immeasurably sad. I no longer think of myself as part of a couple. Even so, I think of death everyday. I often think about my wife and this time of the year brings back some of the…
Subsidized Life
I have been surprised lately by the high number of artistic people I know who present themselves as self-supporting working artists who made it through hard work, sacrifice and determination. The surprise comes when I learn that they built a successful career while having their expenses covered by their parents, inheritances and trust funds. I’m…
Goodbye Father Stranger
My father died last night. After he and my mother divorced when I was around 5, he moved far away and he had little to do with us. He remarried quickly and had another child a few years later. I remember getting birthday cards each year, an occasional letter and speaking on the phone a…
We’re Not Here
Last night I had a dream where my wife and I were going to a fast food joint. We were walking at first but for the last mile, I flew her there using my jetpack – which, at the time, seemed totally reasonable. While we were in line placing our orders, our little old man…
How To Make Delivery Suck
First, I want to say that I am amazed that the US Postal Service can deliver a letter for about 50 cents to anywhere in the US in a few days. To me this is a remarkable service for an unbelievably low price. That said, my experience with the package delivery from USPS is anything…
Deep Work
This week I’ve been listening to Cal Newport’s podcast’s Deep Questions. Cal is an author and Computer Science Professor who writes about “the impact of technology on society, and the struggle to work and live deeply in a world increasingly mired in digital distractions”. His podcast focuses on eliminating distractions and doing meaningful work. I…
Mr. Unfunny
My whole life I have wanted to make comics. The graphic images and gripping stories in Spiderman, The X-Men, The Fantastic Four, Daredevil, and Aquaman sucked me into a world better than anything I could imagine. Unfortunately, I learned I have absolutely no ability to write imaginative, compelling fiction. My next desire would be to…
Daily Death Report
When I was a child, I’d read the paper at breakfast with my Aunts Es and on weekends mornings with my Uncle Bob. I would start with the comic page, then I’d hunt for the single pane comics buried within the paper. Eventually, I’d make my way to the political comic on the editorial page….