I guess this is normal now. The news continues to report Covid, RSV and flu statistics on a daily basis to stoke fear and capture attention. Some people are still wearing facemasks to the grocery store, the swimming pool and in their car when driving alone. I, and many others, are still somewhat leery of…
Author: Steve Ainslie
I May Never See You Again
My wife used to hate saying goodbye to people. She said it made her sad to think she might not see them for a long time. So she would say, “Until we see each other again! I love you.” I liked that about my wife. She was a special kind of person. I, on the…
Niche Internet
On a recent Sam Harris Podcast, Cal Newport said he believes that the existing click-driven, “engagement and addiction” business model of the Internet is nearing the end of its life cycle. He suggested that the next phase will be more niche focused, with many sites that serve a much smaller number of users, reminiscent of…
Going To The Dogs
Some of us who own dogs decline invitations, leave social events early or avoid get-togethers saying “I have to get home to take care of the dogs.” I’ve done this. My family members have done this. My wife used to do this. Friends do this. People who want us to join them will try to…
Photogenic
I ran across some old photos yesterday from my high school years. The ones I kept were my favorite people and memories of those years. What stood out to me was that nobody looked as good as I remembered. In my mind’s eye, my friends and I were youthful and beautiful. We were a happy,…
Mira Mira
Anytime I went to the beach in Florida, if there was a Hispanic family near us, the kids would be running around shouting “Mira! Mira!” incessantly. I never needed this translated because it was obvious what they were saying. They wanted their parents, siblings, cousins and anyone around to “Look at me! Watch me!” They…
Square Peg Anxiety
If you listen to podcasts, follow the news or talk to any Millennials or GenZs, anxiety is going to come up. A lot. I hear people talk about it so frequently, I started to think that everyone except me has anxiety. And unlike Boomers and GenX, they have no qualms talking about their anxiety and…
Nontraditional
More people than I realized don’t do traditional Thanksgiving. I never noticed this before. I seemed like everyone I new did. My family, my peers at work and most of my friends all got together with family for a Thanksgiving dinner. Occasionally I’d hear of someone who was on their own for the holiday. Usually…
Homebodies
While listening to a recent Solo podcast with a self-described homebody, I recognized that we shared more than a few traits. I was somewhat surprised how many things I had in common with the guest that I had previously thought were unique to me. Unlike me, the guest is a tenured professor, nearing retirement who…
Fishing In A Small Pond
Ever since I quit the dating apps 6 months ago, I have not regretted that decision at all. I’m not cut out for the dating app experience – for many reasons that I’ve written about previously. Plus, I’m ambivalent about dating in general. I’m not sure what I want or and what I am prepared…